" My Baby’s Feet: Choice, Death, and the
Aftermath."
“Excerpt
from My Baby’s Feet”:
Fearfully and desperately wanting to hide my mistakes
and enable me to deny the unwanted, but not totally
unexpected ramifications of my earlier choices, I
chose what seemed to be the easiest answer. I chose
death, and then I moved into the aftermath of my choice.
I , for a lifetime and beyond, will live in the aftermath
of my choice. Although there is recovery, through
forgiveness, there are lasting ramifications. No one
told me that the ramifications of my choice would
last forever. No one told me what my choice would
do to my heart. No one told me that my choice was,
in fact, a death sentence for my baby.
Through my story, I pray that you will know that
a living choice is the only real choice. ... Come
with me as I discover a new truth about an old choice.
In My Baby’s Feet, Sheila Luck provides personal
insight that reframes the debate between pro-life
and pro-choice. She provides an intimate view of the
heart of a woman that will make you stop and reconsider
all you have believed regardless of your position.
Her engaging writing style quickly strips away political
rhetoric and gets to the heart of the issues. Sheila
lifts back the curtain on living with the adverse
consequences of her abortion offering a unique glimpse
at the suffering that is seldom addressed. This book
gives a new voice to the unspeakable losses of abortion
that shatters the shrouds of silence surrounding this
unique pain. It offers an honest look at her truth
journey as she faced the realities of her decision.
Her suffering of guilt, shame and grief became a springboard
for understanding true forgiveness. Through her reflections
and introspection, Sheila found peace and now offers
it to others. This book is a must read for anyone
faced with an untimely pregnancy, living in the aftermath
of abortion or seeking a better understanding of the
personal side of the abortion controversy. Jeannie
Hannemann, M.A. – Elizabeth Ministry International
Founder
Women
who are unsure of their feelings on abortion, or who
have experienced abortion, will benefit tremendously
from this heartfelt story of the pain and longing
which linger after an abortion and the path to forgiveness.
Barbara L. Lyons, Executive Director, Wisconsin Right
to Life
... this narrative provides a strong case for a woman
to stop, think and pray about what an abortion really
means, what it really is – and its aftermath.
Mary C. Catterton, founder, Waters of Life Ministry
for Women, Inc.
My Secret Loss: Finding Life
after Abortion
A Bible Study bringing a message of love and forgiveness
for women suffering emotional pain from an abortion,
and for those who love them.
Price per book: $15.00 plus shipping. To order, please
email Sheila
Luck.
From My Secret Loss:
“"...Having had an abortion is often a
woman's deepest secret. She may be afraid to tell
her family, friends, or others that are close to her
out of fear of retribution or condemnation. Meeting
people with compassion for her and with an understanding
of the circumstances surrounding her choice is rarely
expected. As she hears and sees much of today's pro-life
messages, she is confronted not only with the declaration
that her choice was wrong, but that she is personally
unacceptable, unforgivable, or unworthy. On occasion,
there is the woman who finally confides in a trusted
friend, only to be rebuked and shamed by that friend.."
“"My
Secret Loss is a ministry must-personal, biblical,
insightful, purposeful, helpful, truthful, useful
and full of grace and truth for those struggling with
such a loss".”-Laurie McIntyre, Pastor
of Women2Day, Elmbrook Church, Brookfield, WI
" “Sheila has opened the pages of her heart
to all women who need to know their story is able
to be shared. In writing this workbook she has provided
an opportunity for hurting women to find the source
of all comfort, our Lord, Jesus Christ. May the participants
experience the freedom of knowing reconciliation is
possible and be aware of God's healing blessings."
—-Jeannie Hannemann, M. A., Founder of Elizabeth
Ministry International
"The
depth of your pain is my pain ... I truly believe
this Bible study needs to have a much greater audience."
Debra Butler, BSN, MPA, PhD, co-owner of Pathways
to Enrichment and author of "Season's of
Grief, What Nature Can Teach Us About Loss"
Grapple
with Guilt, Shed the Shame
A Bible Study showing the pervasive impact of guilt
and shame, while leaving the reader with a sense of
hope. At some point in our lives, we will all grapple
with our guilt. At some point, many of us will want
to shed our shame.”
Price
per book: $15.00 plus shipping. To order, please email
Sheila Luck.
From
Grapple with Guilt:
Click
here for a sample piece from the book: I
Confess
Endorsements
for Grapple with Guilt
"Grapple
with Guilt, Shed the Shame -- a helpful tool
to address a common yet complicated issue in a prayerful,
biblical manner. The personal stories help the reader
to understand how guilt and shame may be impacting
his or her life while the discussion and homework
facilitate the processing of related emotions."
Victoria A. Gossens, LSCW, Appleton, WI
"Guilt and Shame emanate from fear...of what
others may think, of failure, of loss, of future emotional
hurt or physical harm, and of simple embarrassment.
We can hold so much guilt and shame that we can become
immobilized. In this workbook, Sheila Luck provides
an excellent group process for people to recognize
and rid themselves of the guilt and shame that can
trap any of us. I strongly recommend it!"-Dr.
Thomas J. Wiltzius, PhD, LPC, Sr. Vice President,
Right Management
"Satan's
master plan of deception often uses false guilt and
shame, tempting people to doubt the unconditional
love of God's forgiveness. However, God uses genuine
guilt to alert us to specific wrong actions. In my
years of ministry, I have seen great emotional and
spiritual struggle in people trying to discern the
difference. This Bible study offers an opportunity
to reflect on this challenge and discover the powerful
grace of God."-Jeannie Hannemann, M. A., Founder
of Elizabeth Ministry International
The
Upside to Job Loss –-
Facing job loss can be a painful experience. Yet,
it creates a unique opportunity to evaluate your past,
question your present and dream of your future. It's
an opportunity to make your work-life situation better,
to discover the work-life path that God has planned
for you.
In the words of the author, "Through this book,
I pray that you will find courage and security by
building a personal foundation of strength through
Christ. This foundation will enable you to confront
unwanted work-life change with courage and with a
sense of excitement; discover and build upon your
passions, strengths, and talents; and pursue with
confidence and conviction the next step on the work-life
path that God has planned for you. I pray that you
will identify a positive, everlasting vision for your
future, increase your sense of clarity about who you
are, tune your ears to the direction that God is leading
you, and take action, coupled with patience. Then
you will know the upside to job loss."
Discover how to...
• Stop worrying about unemployment and build
upon a strong foundation toward a positive work-life
vision.
• See opportunity in your job loss.
• Successfully network to find a job you love.
• Find satisfaction and joy in any work-life
situation.
As a Career Management Counselor I have been searching
for this unique and inspirational resource for years.
Sheila Luck shares her journey to find true career
satisfaction and thoughtfully selects Biblical Scripture
and principles to support her keen insights. “The
Upside to Job Loss” is a must read for those
looking to understand the direction and truth that
God intends for them to identify and pursue a satisfying
and rewarding career. Carl J. Wuornos MSEd., LPC Sr.
Career Management Consultant, Right Management, Appleton
WI
"With a caring, deep, prayerful, and biblical
approach, Sheila Luck helps the reader move forward
to a new place, a new call, or a new job. Useful suggestions
at the end of each chapter and at the end of the book
encourage personal application and group discussion."
Mike Dismer, Lutheran Pastor and Camp Director
This is a must read for dislocated workers, or for
that matter those going through a midlife crisis,
simply looking for more self-awareness and peace.
John J. Woest, MS, CRC, LPC, Vocational Consulting
Services, LLC, Green Bay, WI
Inspirational, Positive and Practical. You’ll
find your passion (Calling) in this book. Dan Dieck
CEO Dieck Executive Search, Inc., Madison, WI
Sheila Luck has a style of writing that is creative
and captivating while being informative. As a woman
who recently lost my job of 8 years that I absolutely
LOVED, I was looking for answers to help me figure
out "what next". I am a woman with a heart
for God and trusted that He has a plan for me but
was still unsure and felt a little lost. Sheila Luck,
through her book “The Upside to Job Loss,”
not only reassured me that God, in fact, does have
a plan for my job life but taught me how to listen
for Him in my personal life as well. Sally Swanson,
Waupaca, WI
The
Challenge of Change: Careers, Callings and Work-Life
Crossroads
A
Bible Study designed to help the reader build a personal
mission built on God's plan for his or her life, so
that when faced with work-life changes (whether wanted
or unwanted) the period of transition may be one of
hope.
Price
per book: $15.00 plus shipping. To order, please email
Sheila Luck
.
From
The Challenge of Change:
"Whether
work-life change is the result of job dissatisfaction,
an involuntary layoff or termination, or a voluntary
move, it includes a set of endings and a set of beginnings.
We can face the endings with sadness, regret, anger,
or disappointment; and we can face the beginnings
with fear, worry or anxiety. Alternatively, we can
accept the endings with peace and look forward to
the beginnings with hope, viewing the entire change
with a sense of joy and excitement."
"The
Challenge of Change is among the best career
works I have ever read. It is sound from biblical,
developmental psychology, and career theory standpoints.
I would encourage the active use of Sheila Luck's
career workbook by individuals working through a work-life
transition, whether on their own, through a ministry
service, or with a professional career counselor."
Dr. Thomas J. Wiltzius, PhD, LPC, Sr. Vice President,
Right Management
"The
Challenge of Change is an important tool for
individuals and churches helping people to see careers
and callings the way God's Word looks at our work.
I would use this material with 20-somethings to get
started on the right foot, and with wanting, mid-career
folks who have lost their careers or want a change
... This material is a good arrow to have in your
quiver." Chuck Schwaninger, Church Relations,
Campus Crusade for Christ Int.
"The
Challenge of Change: Careers, Callings and Work-Life
Crossroads, written by author Sheila Luck allows
us to journey through the longings and difficulties
of following our own dreams. Only through self inquiry,
patience and listening for the next step can we begin
to understand the true nature of a perfect Father.
Her own story teaches us the human side of the travails
of our struggle with 'thy will be done.'
All our journeys lead to Truth." Debra
Butler, BSN, MPA, PhD, co-owner of Pathways to Enrichment
and author of "Season's of Grief, What Nature
Can Teach Us About Loss"
"Thank
you Sheila for providing a resource that promises
to be of significant value to the Body of Christ.
Our culture conditions us to habitually define ourselves
by means of profession, performance and position --
all external measures of worth; while God weighs our
value in a very different scale. The author asks those
in the midst of identity-wrenching transition to peer
into God's timeless Word for renewed self-definitions;
wonderfully poses searching questions that invite
the Spirit to open our hearts; alongside vignettes
from her own poignant experience that let us know
she has walked these paths before. Sheila resists
the temptation to tell readers what they should be
thinking, instead, allowing the Holy Spirit to bring
customized insight to each individual as they walk
through her study with Him." Jim Case, Compass
Christian Coaching, Appleton WI (www.compasschristiancoaching.com)
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you so very much.
